10. DON'T cluster in clicks - it's harder to break into a conversation of three or more guys and gals talking together than it is with only two (of the same gender, that is). Make it easier for the cute guy or gal "over there" to approach you by avoiding clusters and clicks.
9. DO meet new friends that you don't already know. Be approachable; you can talk to old friends when you get home. We have attendees coming from as far as...Yep, you guess it, down under! This is the time to make new friends and expand your network - it's what the entire event is all about....So take advantage of every minute....
8. DON'T lose your activity pass! Need I say more???
7. DO participate in the speed networking activity - this year's speed networking experience isn't going to be your average "exercise in herding cattle"....The organizers are doing their best to enable you to enjoy the highest quality and quantity of connections possible.
6. Did I mention DON'T lose your activity pass???
5. DO sign-up for the Amazing Race! This event is specifically designed to help you optimize your conference experience by making new friends BEFORE the conference begins. Racing teams are already getting formed, so sign-up fast!
4. DON'T be a "speed hogger" - "Say what?" A speed hogger is somebody who doesn't rotate when they're supposed to in the speed networking event. Don't hoard the cute guy or gal you're chatting with - or, if you've found the love of your life and simply must keep yapping, PLEASE get up and move "as one" into the Chill Lounge where you can warm it up with your hot air....
3. DO more than just flirt. Surely, bat those eye lashes, flick your hair, show your muscles, and flex your pecks, but TALK to people and build lasting friendships that can turn into eternal relationships. Even if you can't dance, try standing in the middle of the dance floor with someone--you'll be better for it. Get into the STAGE II mindset! Special tools may also be available to connect with each other at the dance in real time using social media, so bring your cell!
2. DON'T miss out on the workshops, special temple trip, service project, and Sunday services. I've heard many a mid-single say that the social is great, but the spiritual is even better. There will be mucho opportunities for both at this conference!
1. DO - TBD! You decide (I'm outta ideas!)....e-me or post your comments below. Let me know what your #1 do or don't is for the conference, and we'll add it to the list!
Have a Love-ly Labor Day! Yours truly, DR. LOVE
(love dot doctor at sbcglobal dot net)
4 comments:
Doctor, Doctor!
I suspect you're a phoney wannabe :), but I'll go along with the sherade - it's pretty entertaining....Here's my question:
I hate mid-singles events because I'm an introvert. I feel like I'm at a disadvantage among all of the extroverts in attendance. What do you advise?
PS I think I know who you are doc - so beware!! (You're a Kiwi for sure)
That is S.A.D but I suggest you drink a 6-pack of Red Bull 1/2 hour before attending conference. Not only will you become an extrovert but an unstoppable flirt! Don't be sad, be glad...lol.
What do you think, Dr. Love???
LOL - well said Mele!
Sad Dude,
Guess again! There's no fluff here - we only serve the real chicken salad in this church! LOL! But thanks for your question. Here's my answer: GET OVER IT! ;-)
Seriously, if you are a true "introvert" as you say, then you really have absolutely no disadvantage socially versus an "extrovert"....One out of every three peeps is an introvert, and in the strict sense of the definition, there is little to no correlation between introversion and shyness. If you are familiar with MBTI or Jungian type theory, introversion and extroversion simply reflect how we derive our energy - which means that an introvert can be just as sociable (if not more) than an extrovert, but after the fun and games are over, an introvert is more likely to feel drained and need down time to "recover" than an extrovert who might be energized by it all.
BTW, I understand that Ghandi, Jacqueline Kennedy, Queen Elizabeth II, Warren Buffet, Tom Hanks, and Harrison Ford were/are all introverts, so you're in good company.
Now, if you have a real clinical condition (social phobia), which is a very real fear of all social interaction, that's a different story...You might want to check out the "social anxiety network" online ...But at first pass, just judging by your posting here, this probably isn't the case ;-)
So, as Mele recommended, cheer up bloke, get your sugar high, go crazy at the event, and recover in the Chill Lounge - we're ready and waiting!
See you at the dance,
Dr. Love (<-- Extrovert)
PS If you want to know more about MBTI or psychological type, check out www.typelogic.com. And yes, I am MBTI Certified - hey, maybe we can do a workshop on this at the next conference! ;-)
ldssaddude,
I don't think Dr. Love is Kiwi - he talk like one but don't spell like one (uses "z" insted of "s")...Probably a Howlie....He's very sexy though - keep it up!
- IslandGurl, xoxo
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